Whether you are just falling in love or you're a newlywed who still hasn't come down to earth after the honeymoon, it's essential to learn the fine art of communication.
Many times when lovers hear how important communication is in keeping love alive, their eyes glaze over. They seem to think communication is simply not sexy. Oh, how wrong they are! When you do it right, the rewards are definitely sexy. Good communication leads to a feeling of security with each other, which leads to a feeling of belonging to each other, which leads straight to the bedroom.
For each sign problems may arise in three areas familiar to all lovers: Sex, Money and Power. Remember that finding it difficult to communicate with your lover does not mean that you are not right for each other or that the relationship is doomed. Far from it. It simply means that you are both human and totally unique. You may need to be communicated with differently in order to feel loved, needed and respected.
However, most lovers make a basic mistake. They communicate with their partners the way they want someone to communicate with them. The second mistake is throwing up their hands and saying “I just can't talk to you!” Actually, what they should be admitting is “I just don't know how to talk to you.” For instance, Aries has a “straight to the point” approach which may be appreciated by another fiery sign, but its bluntness can put the sensitive psyche of a Cancer into intensive care. Unless you really understand your lover's unique needs, then how can you communicate effectively?
Since we all feel the strongest, the most secure and open to communication when we're in our element, let's take a look at the signs which are at home in their astrological elements of Earth, Air, Fire and Water. Each holds the key to communication.
Many times when lovers hear how important communication is in keeping love alive, their eyes glaze over. They seem to think communication is simply not sexy. Oh, how wrong they are! When you do it right, the rewards are definitely sexy. Good communication leads to a feeling of security with each other, which leads to a feeling of belonging to each other, which leads straight to the bedroom.
For each sign problems may arise in three areas familiar to all lovers: Sex, Money and Power. Remember that finding it difficult to communicate with your lover does not mean that you are not right for each other or that the relationship is doomed. Far from it. It simply means that you are both human and totally unique. You may need to be communicated with differently in order to feel loved, needed and respected.
However, most lovers make a basic mistake. They communicate with their partners the way they want someone to communicate with them. The second mistake is throwing up their hands and saying “I just can't talk to you!” Actually, what they should be admitting is “I just don't know how to talk to you.” For instance, Aries has a “straight to the point” approach which may be appreciated by another fiery sign, but its bluntness can put the sensitive psyche of a Cancer into intensive care. Unless you really understand your lover's unique needs, then how can you communicate effectively?
Since we all feel the strongest, the most secure and open to communication when we're in our element, let's take a look at the signs which are at home in their astrological elements of Earth, Air, Fire and Water. Each holds the key to communication.